I’m Julie Nise, a Relationship Trainer with a passion for helping individuals and couples strengthen their connections, master communication, and move from feeling stuck to empowered. Over the years, I’ve helped thousands of people—including couples on the brink of divorce and leaders seeking clarity in their relationships—achieve breakthroughs and focus on creating positive change. Whether you’re looking to improve your marriage, reconnect with your family, or lead your team with confidence, my goal is to provide the clarity, tools, and strategies you need to thrive.
This approach is different. It’s designed to expand your perceptions and give you practical tools to communicate at a more rewarding and effective level.
Genius Thinking means tapping into your powerful unconscious mind and imagination to notice only what could be—what’s possible—and using that as the foundation for transforming your life. Instead of getting stuck in endless analysis of the past, you’ll learn how to set bold, well-formed outcomes for your relationships and manage your values, attitudes, and emotions to achieve them.
You’ll also discover the sensory “map” that shows you how to influence and motivate yourself and others. By understanding and predicting the emotional and unconscious patterns in yourself and those around you, you’ll create connections that are richer, more fulfilling, and far more rewarding.
In the pursuit of a happier life, it’s not so much where you stand, but the direction you’re going that matters most. That’s why it’s critical to choose your future direction boldly—even daringly.Commit to chasing what you want instead of avoiding what you don’t want. Maybe it’s finally having a relationship where you’re loved and heard. Perhaps it’s feeling safe enough to connect with someone openly without fear of abandonment. Or it could be the freedom to fully be yourself, with self-esteem that serves you rather than limits you. Whatever it means to you, I’ll help you master your communication so you can boldly pursue the relationships and connections you truly want.
It’s been an honor to appear on national media, including multiple guest appearances on the Dr. Phil Show. My outcome-based, empathetic but results-focused approach earned recognition from both the clients I worked with after the show and the show itself. I also enjoy being a regular guest commentator on NewsRadio KTRH in Houston, discussing news stories, politics, and current events.
Beyond my media appearances, I bring over two decades of corporate, entrepreneurial, and clinical experience to my clients. I’ve worked with approximately 8,000 people, helping them navigate the challenges they face and the changes they want to make with actionable solutions and proven strategies.
Years in business
Clients worked with
Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapy (LMFT)
Master's Degree in Clinical Psychology
Pepperdine University
Marriage & Family Therapy (LMFT)
Dual-Major B.A. in Business Administration & Psychology
Whittier College
Certified Hypontist (CH)
Master Hypnotist Society
NLP Master Trainer
Master Hypnotist Society
Past President & Senior Trainer
Master Hypnotist Society
Through my 4-Step Fast-Track Process, I help couples rebuild and strengthen their relationship:
Together, we’ll co-design a vision of your improved relationship, defining the qualities it should have and identifying the changes needed. This step focuses on creating a shared goal that inspires hope and motivation for the future.
We’ll review what changes are most desired to alleviate stress and assess your current skills to see what’s working and what’s not. This honest evaluation helps us pinpoint your strengths and the areas that need attention.
I’ll create a tailored Training Plan with specific suggestions for behavioral changes, helping you foster mature, healthy communication and emotional reconnection. This step introduces the practical tools and techniques you’ll use to transform your relationship.
I provide customized feedback and ongoing support, refining your plan as your relationship improves. The goal is to ensure your success is measurable, sustainable, and joyful, leaving you equipped to maintain and grow your connection over time.
You might notice what’s missing from this method: endless discussions about the past. While we don’t ignore the past, the focus is on resolving it—not reliving it. If reframing past events, forgiveness, or emotional shifts are necessary to move forward, we use techniques from neurolinguistics and strategic coaching to achieve those results quickly and effectively.
The past teaches valuable lessons, but it shouldn’t dictate your future. The purpose of this process is to embrace those learnings without attaching negative emotions, empowering you to create a relationship that thrives.
I founded Outcomes Only to address the growing struggles people face in their relationships—whether with a spouse, partner, children, or even in the workplace. Too often, couples feel trapped in unproductive cycles, unsure of how to move forward.
The truth is, you can’t change the past, but you can resolve it. My work is about helping people leave behind the weight of old patterns and build a future rooted in empathy, trust, and connection.
I’ve been happily married for 28 years to my husband, Jim, a former F-4 and F-14 naval aviator. We live in Pensacola, Florida, with our two Border Collies, who keep us entertained with their endless energy. I am extremely passionate about cooking, VERY enthusiastic about traveling to Italy, and always excited to teach our dogs new tricks.
If you’re tired of traditional methods that haven’t worked, it’s time to try a different approach. My training isn’t for everyone, but for those ready to expand what you know, and take action, it offers the clarity and tools needed to transform your relationships.
Think about how you want your relationship and life to go. If you’re ready to take the next step, I invite you to connect with me and start your journey toward a happy, empowered future.
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